Is life better WITH or WITHOUT you around?

What are you adding to the life of the person you love the most?  Is their life easier WITH or WITHOUT you around?  Is it better WITH or WITHOUT you?  Is it more fun WITH or WITHOUT you?  

In counseling many marriages, it literally boggled my mind that many people actually make it easier to live WITHOUT them than it is to live WITH them!  That is horrible.

Make it a BENEFIT when you walk into a room.  Make it so your loved ones can't STAND to NOT have you around!  ADD something at all times!  Don't make it a relief when you're NOT there; make it a relief when you ARE!

Challenge:  Make it so your spouse just can't wait for you to get home.  ADD something positive to the room when you're in it!  Make it so your spouse's life is easier with you and not easier without you.